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Gail and Lilly


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/06/2010 8:51 AM The house  

Okay I am having trouble with my house I cannot get a hold of the guy I am buying it from and I need to get in it soon but I gotta know when he will be done with his work so I can do what I have to do and he doesn't want to sign the contract until after I move in and I just don't like that at all.  And he put a stove in it but it has an electric pilot light but its a gas stove and there is no electric outlet near the gas hookup so not sure how that will work.   And he has started saying something about not being sure if I can get it insured


There is only one thing money cannot buy, the wag of a dog's tail
Peekapuppy


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/06/2010 9:50 AM The house  
Gail, don't give this guy any money until you have a signed sale contract. Something about this seems really strange.

Bobbi
Mom to Lacey and Pokey
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Lucy's Mommy


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
03/06/2010 10:32 AM The house  
I am with Bobbi. Sounds like you should walk away from this guy.

Marilyn -- Mom to one spoiled, but foxy, rattie (Lucy) and three sweet and beautiful kitties (Silly Lily, Moviestar Bridget and Casey Bradlee)
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rattagan's mom


Firehouse Big Dog
Firehouse Big Dog
03/06/2010 11:00 AM The house  
That is strange Gail, be very careful and no money until paperwork is signed, sealed and delivered.

Janie, Mom to the Palm Bay Rat Pack
Rest in peace our darling Girl Baby, Cameo Nora 10/24/07-11/06/09
Rest in peace Cutter Bug Gotcha 8/2/08 Died 11/17/09
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buster


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/07/2010 12:01 AM The house  

  I would make sure that the house can be insured, etc.  Do take care of yourself and be extremely careful.


ginny, mother to radar r.t.,zeev&shelee huskies, & two mini horses buster & rudy
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SYLVIA


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
03/07/2010 6:53 PM The house  
Please get someone to help you that is in Real Estate... Or maybe legal advice. Just be careful. You have to have insurance..

Sylvia from NC(mommy to Toby & Miss Molly)
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Gail and Lilly


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/07/2010 10:49 PM The house  

Well I already gave him $500 down to hold it and he gave me a recite (sp?) but since then I have had a hard time getting in touch with him and I had some concerns about something that I noticed the leak he told me was a small one I believe was much worse because I noticed that the wall has mildew all the way down it and I am not sure if it has mold or not.  And so I wanted to get in touch with him and back out of the sale but he is hard to get in touch with.  My boyfriend doesn't want me to buy the house he thinks I would be better off to rent a small apartment for now and forget the house so I am definanetly giving it some thought with all that's going on.   I was so happy too with finally getting a place for me and Lilly but I don't want either of us to be unsafe.  I would rather leave her here for a few months than to put her through a house with mold and mildew in it.  Sorry I am kind of ranting but its bothering me. 


There is only one thing money cannot buy, the wag of a dog's tail
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Lucy's Mommy


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
03/07/2010 11:17 PM The house  
Mold and mildew is incredibly dangerous for you and Lilly. Do you have an address for him? You and your boyfriend should go visit him him, probably with the police in tow. You may have to sue him in small claims court.
When you say you'd rather leave her here for a few months, you'd be with her, right?

Marilyn -- Mom to one spoiled, but foxy, rattie (Lucy) and three sweet and beautiful kitties (Silly Lily, Moviestar Bridget and Casey Bradlee)
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buster


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/08/2010 12:16 AM The house  

I am very concerned for you.  Mold and mildew can cause all sorts of health problems.  (very serious ones at that)  Please take care of yourself.


ginny, mother to radar r.t.,zeev&shelee huskies, & two mini horses buster & rudy
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Gail and Lilly


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/08/2010 8:24 AM The house  

I meant I would rather have her put up with my dad's sillyness then to be in that situation with the mold but I called a guy about an apartment and he said Lilly can be there and its rather cheap and would be okay until I can find better.  But I can't have her in a house that has mold and mildew and I went by there because he was supposed to put a stove in there and he hasn't done it. 


There is only one thing money cannot buy, the wag of a dog's tail
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banjorat


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/08/2010 9:29 AM The house  
I think you would be wise to walk away from this house. I don't know if you could get the deposit back, but you should, as he hasn't put the stove in, and if he mentioned the insurance issue after you gave him the deposit then you should be able to. That is a biggie.
If the leak has been there long enough to cause mold and mildew, then that kinda tells me that this guy isn't on top of making repairs in a timely manner, and I don't think I'd trust the roof not to leak again.
Rent the apartment, and take the time to look around, there is something better out there.
Lorna

I never knew what I was missing until Pepper was literally dropped in my lap.....Life is good.
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Ski


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/08/2010 1:11 PM The house  

I agree you should stay away from this house.  If you do decide you still want the house,  you shouldn't sign anything or give him any more money until you have a home inspection by a professional.  (someone you pick, not someone he suggests)  It would probably cost a couple hundred dollars,  but could save you a fortune in the long run.

As far as the deposit,  I'd contact the State Office of the Attorney General and see if they have any advice for you.    http://ag.ky.gov/civil/consumerprotection/

 

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lynnygal


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
03/10/2010 10:49 PM The house  
Gail, reading this made the hair stand up on the back of my neck! Please please something isn't right with this deal.......do your best to get your money back, but don't move in there. Sounds very fishy.......

Lynn
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lockner13


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
03/11/2010 10:53 AM The house  
As everyone else has said, there is definitely something not right about this deal. The guy should be more than happy to answer your calls and help get you into the house. As long as you have a receipt from the guy you should be able to get your money back. This maybe a long process but definitely worth it as the guy took advantage of you and will continue taking advantage of others as well.

Mold is extremely dangerous and you or Lilly do not need to be living in such an environment. Also it is not easily removed either.

When working a real estate deal, it is always best to do so with a real estate professional as you have all the legal aspects covered and if something doesn't work out you will never come out bad on the deal. (I am not saying this just because I am in the real estate field )

Good luck and keep us posted!

Amanda
~Mom to my furkid Mollie~

Adoption Coordinator/TN State Coordinator/Foster Parent
New Rattitude Rat Terrier Rescue
http://www.NewRattitude.org
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Gail and Lilly


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/11/2010 6:43 PM The house  

I finally got in touch with the guy and he told me he finished the repairs but where the mildew was he painted over it with kilz paint but didn't paint all the way down.  and at the bottom of the wall the mildew is not covered up. 


There is only one thing money cannot buy, the wag of a dog's tail
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HEYLA


Ratterific
Ratterific
03/11/2010 8:39 PM The house  
I would bail on this. Inform him that unless you get the $500 back, you will take him to court to get it returned. It will cost you about $150 to file the papers with small claims, but you might be able to get that back too from the courts. Write down everything he tells you, date it and times. All of this sounds WAY fishy and not up to code.

"If it has tires or testicles, it's gonna be trouble"

..... HeyLA!
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Lucy's Mommy


Rat-A-Tat-Tat
Rat-A-Tat-Tat
03/11/2010 9:33 PM The house  
Bail, Gail. Bail. You and Lilly don't want to live in that house.

Marilyn -- Mom to one spoiled, but foxy, rattie (Lucy) and three sweet and beautiful kitties (Silly Lily, Moviestar Bridget and Casey Bradlee)
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SYLVIA


Terrier Terror
Terrier Terror
03/11/2010 11:09 PM The house  
That house sounds like big problems. You may not even get a loan with that kind of problems. I would walk away. Dont undertake a problem that might make you sick...... You can find something else with time..

Sylvia from NC(mommy to Toby & Miss Molly)
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Gail and Lilly


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/12/2010 7:42 AM The house  

I am going to see about an apartment that has an ad in the paper today.  One of my friends thinks I should take this house, why I don't know but right now my boyfriend is in jail and in order for him to get out in may I have to find a place but even he said not to take the house.  The house was on a land contract and so I didn't have to worry about a loan but this guy doesn't like people living together and refuses to rent to anyone living together and my boyfriend's mammaw said that he can still say who lives there with it being a contract sale.  And I told the man I needed to know where the property lines where so I could put a fence around the yard and he said he would advise me not to put alot of money into the house that I wouldn't be able to get back if I lost the house.  And he was advising me to put carpet down and I told him I was not going to put it down. 


There is only one thing money cannot buy, the wag of a dog's tail
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Gail and Lilly


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/12/2010 7:50 AM The house  

And he didn't act like he liked that statement.  My boyfriend thinks we would be better off to find a nice apartment that would allow Lilly and take it instead.  And I guess everyone agrees with him I just worry about getting moved in time for him to get out.  I just changed jobs and start my new one next week and I will get a better pay for it.  So I gotta do something very quickly. 


There is only one thing money cannot buy, the wag of a dog's tail
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Lucylu


Bratty Ratty
Bratty Ratty
03/12/2010 8:46 AM The house  
Gail, JMO you should do what is right for you and no one else!!! Don't stress about getting something for your boyfriend so you can help out.
The house sounds too fishy, and no one has the right to tell you who can live in a place that your rent or buy, or your marital status -personally it's against the Human Rights Code (well here in Canada at least).
Secondly if there are so many changes in your life (ie new job) you should maybe stay put where you are, until it settles and make the best move for you. Rushing into something with so much uncertainly may lead to a bigger problem down the line. JMHO.

Layla
Proud dog parent to Lucy, Fiona and Kip
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Peekapuppy


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/12/2010 9:06 AM The house  
Gail
I am going to take a big risk and give you some unsolicited advice.
Please don't base your living situation on what your boyfriend needs/wants. Please reconsider living with this guy.

1. He's in jail. Which means he was/will be doing things that are illegal. If this activity is happening in a shared living situation, it either bings in people that could be a danger to you and Lilly.
2. if he has a felony record (just supposing, not knowing for sure), how will he support himself, and contribute to the shared cost of maintaining housing and basic life necessities. If he can't, it will all fall on you.
3. If he gets arrested for illegal activites in your shared living space, you could end up in legal trouble.

Gail, I have lived a lot of years, and seen many similar situations. I fear for your safety, and Lilly's. You are worthy of a safe and loving environment, and so is Lilly. Please, please, please, reconsider and find a place that is just for you.

Bobbi
Mom to Lacey and Pokey
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banjorat


Ratastic
Ratastic
03/12/2010 9:07 AM The house  
Painting will cover the mold, BUT it is still there and has to be dealt with as it is still a hazard.
And I told the man I needed to know where the property lines where so I could put a fence around the yard and he said he would advise me not to put alot of money into the house that I wouldn't be able to get back if I lost the house. And he was advising me to put carpet down and I told him I was not going to put it down.

It sounds to me like he wants you to fix up the house so it looks good for him to resell if you lose it, but not to spend money on a fence?????but it's OK for you to spend the money on the carpeting??????
As to suggesting you might lose it down the line, is there something he knows that you don't know and don't have any control over?
It still bothers me that he mentioned that you might not be able to get insurance on it. Does he have insurance on it? And if he doesn't, then why not?
Remember that change is always stressful, even if it is a change for the better. and making decisions is too. If you feel the guy is pressuring you in any way then stand your ground and not give in, just cause it's easier.
Good luck to you and give Lilly a hug for all of us.
Lorna

I never knew what I was missing until Pepper was literally dropped in my lap.....Life is good.
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